GoSolo.Subkit.com recently interviewed me on being an entrepreneurial and solo business owner. Here is the interview.
Creating Your Own Path – Jennifer Hillman
Interested in starting your own entrepreneurial journey in coaching but unsure what to expect? Then read up on our interview with Jennifer Hillman, Founder of Jennifer Hillman Inc., located in Tucson, AZ, USA.
What’s your business, and who are your customers?
My business, Jennifer Hillman Inc, is an umbrella of businesses supporting my clients’ lives and assisting them in building their dreams. In 2001, I started as Angels Intuition, a spiritual, personal life advisor. The business grew into Inner Strength Coaching of intuitive life coaching due to confused clients handing me the responsibility of their lives. My clients now are open to possibilities and looking for guidance forward. As a life coach, I give that responsibility back and their inner power, confidence, and dreams.
Created by Jennifer Hillman’s Poetry Series, Embracing Souls is available on Amazon.
Tell us about yourself.
I got a Graphic Design degree and found my ideal job as a Production Coordinator at a cable station. After four years, I got fired from that job I loved due to the “#MeToo” situation. And for the first time, I stood up for myself and took legal action. Even during the legal case, I was bullied into a settlement by my then-husband and attorney. My case took over two years. I went from depression to meditation leading to spiritual awakening and finding myself again. I took responsibility for my own life, ended my 19-year marriage, and started my intuitive life coaching business and writing. I also started living my bucket lists of dreams I let slip by me. I was traveling road trips solo across the country, meeting interesting people. For marketing, I started a live radio show (or podcast as they are known now) on BBSRadio.com under Abstract Illusion Radio or AIR. I interviewed some fantastic writers and spiritual teachers/ leaders of the time between 2007 and 2010 on BBSRadio and other independent online radio stations from 2010 to 2016. You can still hear the show on BBSRadio archives and my YouTube channel.
I started my business on available advisory phone lines of the time. I worked on several sites and created my website, AngelsIntuition.com. I joined a few local business networking groups to get word-of-mouth advertising going and wrote daily blogs on my site and a few other blogs. I registered for a new online magazine.
What’s your biggest accomplishment as a business owner?
For over 20 years in business, I have been blessed to help and assist thousands of clients. I hear a client has achieved their dream, received that great opportunity, found that true love they were looking for, and is grateful for the call with me. And they refer friends to call me, and those friends refer me too.
What’s one of the hardest things about being a business owner?
The hardest thing for me was not getting distracted by the financial aspects of business and focusing on the core mission of my business. Trusting myself with my business and the direction I was focusing on and losing the passion for the business. My business is a living thing for me and needs to grow and diversify to keep it interesting to continue.
What are the top tips you’d give to anyone looking to start, run and grow a business today?
Follow the dreams of your heart and do a company you love to do. Trust yourself – you got this.
Research and learn about the business idea with the basics, the legal aspects, the accounting, insurance, your niche market, and if you have employees, respect their opinions and know their rights.
Be open and plan the big picture of possibilities with the business by-products. In other words, please focus on the center of business, yet see the company’s diversity and varieties and have a core mission that unites them all. Do your best not to overthink or overwhelm yourself.
Is there anything else you’d like to share?
Be willing to invest in yourself and your business by taking a business class, like Marie Forleo’s B-School. It builds a good foundation for any business. B-School helped me refocus on myself and my business interaction in balance.
I was invited to write my thoughts on life purpose, purpose of life, or the meaning of life on the site, Goodquestion.com.
These are my wisdom on the subject. enjoy. ~jh.
Introduction
Jennifer Hillman is an American Intuitive Motivational Life Coach, Published Poet/Writer, and Energy Practitioner certified in Master Reiki, NLP, and Hypnosis Therapies. She writes on the spiritual experience as a human and the insights within the current waves of self-expression. She has a radio show/podcast, Abstract Illusions Radio, available on YouTube and BBSRadio. Her site is JenniferHillman.com
Your view on what is Purpose of Life
Life’s Purpose is similar to the Purpose of Life, yet different in specific ways. Life purpose is a calling or an agreement your soul made for you to achieve during this lifetime. The Purpose of Life is the experiences through self-expression, self-love, and choices made.
The Purpose of Life evolves through creativity, self-expression, and experiences. This explanation is what I have come to understand through the ebb and flow of my Life’s experiences. I gained insights through my artistic side and explored the different genres within the expressions. My experiences opened me to that creative/artistic side, mainly writing through poetry. It opened worlds within me to gain a broad understanding of why I was here.
Each has its meditative wonderings of releasing the energies within the imagination. Each experience has value to the impact from and to the individual soul. Through your experiences, you discover more about yourself: your fears, joys, desires, and your calling(s). Yes, you can have more than one calling in a lifetime, especially these accelerated energies.
Through my experiences of self-expression, I found my calling. The calling to aid others with finding what makes their Heart skip a beat gives them extreme joy, focus, and drive to share this passion.
The Purpose of Life is to get curious and experience different situations in discovering your true Heart’s desire and follow your intuition or inner voice through the maze before you. Making choices in what direction to go next can be messy along the way. It is not always nice and tidy along the way, yet acceptance of the responsibility of your choice is part of the game we play. We find our way to the source of our dreams, the Heart.
You know when you resonate with the Heart as your Heart is open and full of joy. Being with the Heart aids you to get out of stagnation, clarity, and be integrity. We are becoming kind, honest, and receptive to sharing the natural state of love. Then you will know or have a strong pulse of what your calling(s) is for you in your lifetime.
Quotes
“Within a moment of silence, all is known that needs to be known. Within a moment of breath, all of life surrounds you…from the stars, the sun, the trees, and all of humanity. Within a moment of a smile, love embraces the universe and beyond. It only takes a moment of being open to the wisdom, the beauty, and the Grace. “— Jennifer Hillman
“Whisper sweetly, the tenderness of the moment. Let the love teach you the true meaning and passion of this experience we share. With gratitude and reverence for the blessings and miracles I receive and witness, my heart still beats as the little things die to be reborn with a greater joy for life in each moment.” — Jennifer Hillman
I listened to Marianne Williams’ Instagram today. She was talking about the corona-virus and how we (humanity as a whole) will never be the same. We are coming to realize how fragile and robust understanding, and how we must unite to change for the betterment of all.
“With equanimity, you can deal with situations with calm and reason while keeping inner happiness.” Dalai Lama
I have heard the Corona Virus is the great equalizer and a time for equanimity. It is leveling the fields and letting humanity know that the clock has started to get our acts together. Many have seen this coming, yet slow to act. Many have felt they are waiting for something. Guess what? It’s here.
This time is a clearing time of your past and healing wounds. I suggest you take some time to do a lifetime review. Write a letter to your past self and your future self within reflecting through your present person. Look at the lessons learned and be willing to be real honest with yourself and a witness to what you write as well as involved. This exercise will help gain perspectives other than the stories held onto now.
April is the month to gain those new perceptions and tools for your unique birth after the self-awareness. The timing of all this quarantine is a divine intervention with the world’s humanity coming to the beginning of the Aquarian age at the end of 2020. The age of Aquarius is the age of love, equality, abundance, balance, compassion, and on the more practical side, digital commerce. Aquarius is the air sign of waves, like electrical waves. So the internet and digital businesses will increase.
Ideas and insights will also be increasing. Trust yourself. You are not imaging things. Write them down if you can’t act on it right then. It is a great idea to keep a note pad on your phone or paper nearby to write the sparks of inspiration that may come.
Some dates for you to markdown: ~Saturday 4/4 • CREATIVE / REST / RECEIVING ◦ stepº15 Aries Sun, Jupiter conjoins Pluto • Sunday 4/5/ • SPIRITUAL / REST DAY ◦ º16 Aries Sun, Mars º4 Aquarius, Chiron º6 Aries • Monday 4/6 • Commit to Stronghold and Action ◦ º17 Aries Sun • Tuesday 4/7 • FULL MOON IN LIBRA (where are your equilibrium and balance?) ◦ º18 Aries Sun, Mars sq Uranus, Merc sx Pluto, Mars sx Jupiter • Friday 4/10 • Good Friday. New Information Comes ◦ º21 Aries Sun, (Venus in pre-shadow period) • Saturday 4/11 • Unexpected Shift in Direction / Future ◦ º22 Aries Sun, Mercury sextiles Saturn • Sunday 4/12 • EASTER, New Perspective Comes ◦ º23 Aries Sun, Moon conjoins Galactic Center • Monday 4/13 • CREATIVE / REST / RECEIVING DAY ◦ º24 Aries Sun • Tuesday 4/14 • SPIRITUAL / REST DAY ◦ º25 Aries Sun, Mercury conjoins Chiron, Sun Squares Pluto • Wednesday 4/15 • Commit to Action/Changes ◦ º26 Aries Sun, Sun square Jupiter, Mercury conjoins Black Lilith • Thursday 4/16 • New Future in Motion ◦ º27 Aries Sun, Uranus º6 Taurus, Jupiter º26 Capricorn • Saturday 4/18 • Final Test of Strength ◦ º29 Aries Sun, Mercury sextiles Venus and Mars (both) • Sunday 4/19 • Sun enters Taurus º0 Taurus SunWeek4: NEW LINES OF CREDIT • Tuesday 4/21 • Emotionally Tested º2 Taurus Sun, Sun squares Saturn • Wednesday 4/22 • New Moon in Taurus º3 Taurus Sun • Thursday 4/23 • Breakdown / Inner Shifting ◦ º4 Taurus Sun • Saturday 4/25 • CREATIVE / REST / RECEIVING DAY º6 Taurus, Mercury squares Pluto, Pluto Retrogrades • Sunday 4/26 • SPIRITUAL / REST DAY / º7 Taurus, Venus crosses the Sun, Sun conjoins Uranus, Mercury sq Jupiter 5: COMMITTING TO GROWTH • Monday 4/27 • Decide to Leave Old Values Behind stepº8 Taurus Sun • Tuesday 4/28 • New Credit Moves Forward stepº9 Taurus, Mercury squares Saturn
I have been getting signs and messages to get myself together and make some decisions. Take some actions towards those commitments. I must admit I have been slow to respond to my inner guidance at times. Not now. Not for the last year. I have upped my game and made decisions to move forward. I took classes and courses on what I needed to know before going for it all. I have taken steps for the path/purpose of why I am here in the first place. I am working and organizing my experiences and abilities in courses. These courses aim to open the inner powers and allowing the true you to live in happiness and abundance. If you are interested, please let me know. Pre-registration and pre-launch sale will be coming soon.
Time to get out the cleaning clothes and get busy.
Within the last few months, a collective renewal has been happening. Slowing building new foundations, dreams, and realities. This is a deep process with layers and levels to go through to enhance and refine this great life we are creating for ourselves, family, and friends…and the future of humanity. Well, it is Spring cleaning time, isn’t it?
This month started with Mercury still in retrograde, clearing the way for our inner communication to surface and release the blocks in our road. We are in a frequency of deleting and releasing fears of Self; about ourselves, our families in the depths of our perceptions. We can’t hide from the deep in the cleaning of our deepest fears…as Black Lilith joins up with the Healer, Chiron all month long. (oh, boy!) Facing these insecurities and fears as they pop up in your reality will be easier this time around. Chiron connecting with Black Lilith brings the solution to the surface for us to learn and release from these fears.
These fears may be making their last appearance as we completely dealt with it. People can reflect these fears right in your face. Yet, it is you looking in a mirror to see these fears up close and personal. Please remember this when people are irritating you for this reason or that. Look deeper inside yourself and don’t just blame the other. They are that angel in disguise looking out for you in some way, knowingly or not. We are in this together.
As we have cleared out some of the hidden stuff between the inner-space of ourselves, the magic can come forward and bloom. As of March 9, Mercury Retrograde ends on the full moon in Virgo and allows more positive things into our experiences. I think we all are ready for this, don’t you?
Yet, this whole year will have moments of clearing, testing, and re-centering… Just remember in those times, to breathe and say to yourself these words, “I am a powerful, positive individual and anything that happens is for my highest good. I got this easy.” Look for the best way to self-correct and have some fun creating the solution with the situations. The magic is available with the alignment of the planets to support us forward if we take the steps one at a time without over-thinking about it. Most resolutions are common sense and amusing when we think about the creative ways we find.
Trusting yourself and your feelings are the most powerful gift…adding more confidence and ease to your self-direction on the way to miracles and blessings. Feeling in the flow and sharing your brilliance moving forward on the experiences you have a passion to undergo with faith.
Understanding you may have things happen opposite of what you are desire, this is only to build your skills and faith in creating this new life. So again, trust you got this. The more gratitude, faith, and trust in yourself and your creation, the easier it will get pass any fears that come up during this month. Make sure to check in with your intentions you created last Virgo (late August – September) season, last year. Those intentions are being checked and received during this month. Are you good with them or it is time to up the game?
You are planting seeds for the essence of your life during this time for the next 5 years this month, as Saturn moves into Aquarius from Capricorn. The actions you take during this time will move you forward into the future. Removing your self-sabotaging ways and ending lessons from repeating will open the way to magic and positive new life blooming…
I know you got this. Yet, if you have any questions, schedule a session and gain perspective on the fears and lessons you are creating now. Enjoy the process of life and each step with gratitude. Life is coming up with roses. It is time, don’t you think?
Welcome to February and new understanding about our dreams, where we belong in our minds, experience, and the story we are creating now. January was the start-up for cleaning the slate or organizing the mind to deal with past karma, issues and finding your inner voice.
February brings some clarity and some time to make sure that is the change(s). You want to make as mid-month (2/16) the planet of Mercury decides to slide back until the 9th of March. So it is best to regroup, reorganize and realign your thoughts, projects, and recenter your future into the new possibilities that may happen during this time.
Please remember this whole year is a deep process, creating the foundation of new worlds in the near future. Any step forward is wonderful. Even if you need to take a half step back for a deep breath and looking at the bigger picture.
As I wrote in the guest article, “Thoughtfully Moving Forward” for JG Lewis’ blog, “Mythos & Marginalia: life notes between the lines and along the edges”:
“2020 is all about this transformation and progress for the world, nature, individuals, and groups of humanity. What we focus on this year is building our new storyline and a chapter for all of us. Truly, take a little time and focus with your heart in mind and ask yourself a simple question to manifest this new life: What would I love? Answer this in the coming weeks and allow it to unfold by listening to the whispers of your inner voice.”
Your inner voice may be getting your attention on February 6th about a decision the best direction for you to go in the future. Write it down and think about it. Especially with the Mercury retro in the wings and the Full moon in Leo on the 9th.
Full moons are all about releasing and making room for the new. Leo is connected to the heart and sun. So it is a great day to let go of the past issue or future blocks… to some clearing work on yourself and let the unfolding begin.
Take some time to reflect on your dreams and make a plan. See the big picture of it in front of you, your family and friends. Trust you got this and breathe deep in gratitude. Take that one step forward by letting go and getting out of your own way. By learning this, you will make 2020 go much smoother. Blessings to you. If you have any questions, please get in touch.
Say Hello to your new life. It may not seem like things are changing at all or fast enough, hold on to your hat, your seat and keep breathing.
Change is coming at the planets are aligning to make sure, ready or not, you do get on the right side of the path for you. We started this change all through 2019. Lots of situations, issues, and mindsets upsets happened. In 2020, it all comes to the surface to be healed once and for good… or re-deal with it in 12 to 30 years from now. Best to do it now.
January 10th had Cancer Full Moon, mothering energy with an eclipse. So emotions will be in your focus. Breathe before reacting, responding, or push the situation. Self-Care comes first with this energy. Allow the release of things that irritate, trigger, or make life tense when possible. Make a list of gratitude for the release and the opening of new and better coming in. Be prepared for the shake-up for this to happen… in two days’ time.
January 11th has Uranus goes direct in Taurus (earth sign). Planet of surprises, expect the unexpected. With having all the emotions from the full moon eclipse, taking some time to regroup, breathe and ground yourself is strongly suggested.
January 12th is the Big and Much Looked for the aspect of the year. The meeting between Sun, Saturn, Pluto, Ceres, Mercury in Capricorn. Capricorn is all about going beyond limits and structure, having goals and making it happen, climbing the mountain and being a success and not stopping until it is all done. So having this powerful meet up of the Sun, Saturn (taskmaster, structure, and the home planet of Capricorn) with Pluto (planet of the great revealer, death, rebirth, future, and change), plus Mercury (Communication and Intellectual) and Ceres (depth of love, grief, and loss). To put it simply: major transition.
We all have been feeling the build-up of pressure to change in some form or way over the last year… thought of what we love and would love to do…now is the time to take some kind of action step toward those thoughts in some form or way. Invest in your dream, either monetarily or action. Walk your talk and let go of it. (This is my action step towards creating more for clients.)
Others changes this month include: Jan. 13th – Venus goes in Pisces – Time for forgiveness… in self and others. Ho’opono’opono ritual is suggested. While thinking of the issue, simply stated: “I love you; I am sorry; Please forgive me; Thank you.” Repeat this until you feel a release or lightness about the issue.
Jan 16th – Mercury in Aquarius – Communication for groups through your original thoughts.
More to come for this month. Please subscribe to the bi-monthly newsletter.
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GoSolo.Subkit.com recently interviewed me on being an entrepreneurial and solo business owner. Here is the interview. Creating Your Own Path - Jennifer Hillman Interested in starting your own entrepreneurial journey in coaching but unsure what to expect? Then read up...
I was invited to write my thoughts on life purpose, purpose of life, or the meaning of life on the site, Goodquestion.com. These are my wisdom on the subject. enjoy. ~jh. Introduction Jennifer Hillman is an American Intuitive Motivational Life Coach, Published...
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I was invited to write my thoughts on life purpose, purpose of life, or the meaning of life on the site, Goodquestion.com. These are my wisdom on the subject. enjoy. ~jh. Introduction Jennifer Hillman is an American Intuitive Motivational Life Coach, Published...
April 2020 ~ Change Bunnies. I listened to Marianne Williams’ Instagram today. She was talking about the corona-virus and how we (humanity as a whole) will never be the same. We are coming to realize how fragile and robust understanding, and how we must unite to...
Time to get out the cleaning clothes and get busy. Within the last few months, a collective renewal has been happening. Slowing building new foundations, dreams, and realities. This is a deep process with layers and levels to go through to enhance and refine this...
The spiral notion of reflections knowing the truth lives within the present essences Seeing the country’s history revisiting… From the Revolutionary war on sovereignty and freedom from oppression to the Civil War about immigration and slavery… individual rights of the states. The equality of people and treatment… being of race and women.
Wounds need healing upon knowing and acknowledgment to change to another and different forms yet to be a comfort.
From where we are and where we would like to be.
Spinning the in and out of illusions and false words, I continue to search for my part within these creations, know the time is slowly changing all that is now. Focus on the positive essences of truth I do see. The increasing voices of the many seeking to be heard with all the noise of the chaos.
Time magazine named Journalists as the people of the year… looking for the truth and paying the price for it.
Artists, writers, and creative people have always shown the truth to us. We all are looking for that truth, within ourselves and the world. It is a scary place right now. America…the world is broken. America is the world leader is broken in a fractured piece of its past that remained unhealed from the uncertainty of the Revolutionary War; to the immigration/slavery issues of the Civil War; to suffrage movement for women and the citizens wonder why? Every opportunity is available or is it?
Choices, chances, and decisions create our individual paths with our beliefs pushing us forward or holding us back. Yet I trust the processes the humanity must go through to get itself heading for the betterment.
I take time to witness, listen to the current of the times, knowing the waves may get heavy at times. Just hold on tight and allow the right actions to us learning the better way to go in this next round for Mother Earth and humanity.
Forward movement is the only way and I connect deeper with my heart and my truths; realigning beliefs which guided me through some strengthening experiences, discovering find my voice, my soul’s pathways and meaning of what I was told during a near death experience many years ago…
Wisdom through words. Some advice I would give to anyone…of any age. Observe, listen, and share. I learned for observing many wise elderly and the young innocence. With this, I collected and smiled with these steps to living.
Quiet the Mind. . . be with the Silence and simply listen to your heart… follow the whispers of your truths be bold and embrace the magic while expanding your brilliance in every moment, with every breath.
Live large through creativity share tender moments of laughter express yourself while you forgive often… yourself and others.
Love Always.
Be true to you by being the uniqueness of all you be. Trust. Love. Be. Love’s Truths.
Do you practice self-love? With Valentine’s Day coming soon, it is an important question to ask yourself, especially if you are single, looking for love or in a relationship and wondering where your relationship is heading.
Why is it important to practice self-love? What does self-love look like in practice? How would you advise a customer who is hoping to manifest self-love in their life?
What is self-love and why does self-love matter? Self-love is self-care, self-esteem, confident and most important, knowing your true self. The knowing and holding on to those true aspects of oneself that make you…uniquely YOU. When you care about yourself, you care about what surrounds yourself… your individual world and world will reflect that expression of yourself Back at you.
The practice of self-love is the care of what you feel about yourself more than what others feel or think about you. Your inner trust in what you are doing and if it feels good, right for you…that is all that matters. At times, the best and hardest thing you can say to someone else is NO.
As someone who has allowed herself to be in abusive relationships, had low self-esteem and find truth in her understanding of her self-worth (priceless) I understand what it takes to get up and change. Hold on to that promise to myself that I am looking out for myself as no one will quite the way I do. I learned to love myself and saw my reflection of self-love return in the ways others showed me respect and support I now get from others.
Let me ask you a few questions about yourself.
Do you like where you are in your life?
Do you wake up, saying Yes or just push the snooze buttons on your life?
Do you worry what others like of you and just go along with whatever they tell you to do at your expense?
Do you looking for a love relationship or friends to validate who and what you are?
Do you take care of yourself with exercise, rest, eating well, and have balance in your life?
Are you happy?
If you have doubts or say NO to any of these questions. Let’s talk about the ways to change this quickly and easily by breaking down the reasons, blocks, and situations that got you to these points and create a better life for yourself. A life of loving yourself reflections in the expression back from life…with supportive people, career, and situations that say Yes to you. Though my Clairvoyant, Clairsentience Clairaudience Claircognizance I can assist you in finding those blocks and misperception to find the true you. That wonderful you are waiting to be fully in your life.
For example, I had a client, in his mid-20s, call me on the verge of suicide thoughts. He had just broken up with his fiance, the love of his life and was losing control of his life without her. She had blocked from her social media and told him to find someone else. She needed to focus on her life, school, and work. He had low self-esteem (abusive family situation -alcoholic parents), currently lived in his basement of his father’s house. He was doing many odd jobs without any benefits or true security in his life.
We discussed his ideal dream of life. He would work in the tech/ entertainment industry in a job with benefits and 9 to 5 hours during the week. He would live in a house with a yard, his girlfriend would be his wife, a couple of kids. He could see this so clearly. His family situation would be peaceful.
Each time we talked, I let him clear the air and then we discuss a step toward changing this. We set up some steps such as getting a journal to write out his feelings to his girlfriend in a journal, all his thoughts, and feelings he had towards her…to give it out of his system. Next, he wrote his mother and father a letter… told them all his thoughts and feelings. He wrote them and burned the letter, removing that energy out of his life. The next day, his mother called and wanted to clear the air with him.
At the same time, he was looking for a house…found it and the owner has renovated it at the time. This client got this perfect house made to his liking without the cost. About this time, he got a text from his ex…asking him how he was doing. Communication had opened up. He was through the roof.
Soon, a friend contacted him about an opening at this television/radio station looking for a tech manager. He put his resume in and is now not just the tech manager, but the operation manager with 9 to 5 hours and full benefits for a few stations in his area.
With many calls with me, He opened up his self-love, caring for the important details and steps to get his dream. His girlfriend is still busy with school and work yet she is texting and talking with him. He is patiently going with the flow, knowing it is just a matter of time until she will be back In his life again. Self-love builds your dreams into reality.
So are you ready to give yourself self-love and live your dreams? Need some assistance, contact me for a session today.
Created by Jennifer Hillman’s Poetry Series, Embracing Souls is available on Amazon.
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