Finding Self Love

Finding Self Love

Do you practice self-love? With Valentine’s Day coming soon, it is an important question to ask yourself, especially if you are single, looking for love or in a relationship and wondering where your relationship is heading.

Why is it important to practice self-love? What does self-love look like in practice? How would you advise a customer who is hoping to manifest self-love in their life?

What is self-love and why does self-love matter?
Self-love is self-care, self-esteem, confident and most important, knowing your true self. The knowing and holding on to those true aspects of oneself that make you…uniquely YOU. When you care about yourself, you care about what surrounds yourself… your individual world and world will reflect that expression of yourself Back at you.

The practice of self-love is the care of what you feel about yourself more than what others feel or think about you. Your inner trust in what you are doing and if it feels good, right for you…that is all that matters. At times, the best and hardest thing you can say to someone else is NO.

As someone who has allowed herself to be in abusive relationships, had low self-esteem and find truth in her understanding of her self-worth (priceless) I understand what it takes to get up and change. Hold on to that promise to myself that I am looking out for myself as no one will quite the way I do. I learned to love myself and saw my reflection of self-love return in the ways others showed me respect and support I now get from others.

Let me ask you a few questions about yourself.

Do you like where you are in your life?

Do you wake up, saying Yes or just push the snooze buttons on your life?

Do you worry what others like of you and just go along with whatever they tell you to do at your expense?

Do you looking for a love relationship or friends to validate who and what you are?

Do you take care of yourself with exercise, rest, eating well, and have balance in your life?

Are you happy?

If you have doubts or say NO to any of these questions. Let’s talk about the ways to change this quickly and easily by breaking down the reasons, blocks, and situations that got you to these points and create a better life for yourself. A life of loving yourself reflections in the expression back from life…with supportive people, career, and situations that say Yes to you. Though my Clairvoyant, Clairsentience Clairaudience Claircognizance I can assist you in finding those blocks and misperception to find the true you. That wonderful you are waiting to be fully in your life.

For example, I had a client, in his mid-20s, call me on the verge of suicide thoughts. He had just broken up with his fiance, the love of his life and was losing control of his life without her. She had blocked from her social media and told him to find someone else. She needed to focus on her life, school, and work. He had low self-esteem (abusive family situation -alcoholic parents), currently lived in his basement of his father’s house. He was doing many odd jobs without any benefits or true security in his life.

We discussed his ideal dream of life. He would work in the tech/ entertainment industry in a job with benefits and 9 to 5 hours during the week. He would live in a house with a yard, his girlfriend would be his wife, a couple of kids. He could see this so clearly. His family situation would be peaceful.

Each time we talked, I let him clear the air and then we discuss a step toward changing this. We set up some steps such as getting a journal to write out his feelings to his girlfriend in a journal, all his thoughts, and feelings he had towards her…to give it out of his system. Next, he wrote his mother and father a letter… told them all his thoughts and feelings. He wrote them and burned the letter, removing that energy out of his life. The next day, his mother called and wanted to clear the air with him.

At the same time, he was looking for a house…found it and the owner has renovated it at the time. This client got this perfect house made to his liking without the cost. About this time, he got a text from his ex…asking him how he was doing. Communication had opened up. He was through the roof.

Soon, a friend contacted him about an opening at this television/radio station looking for a tech manager. He put his resume in and is now not just the tech manager, but the operation manager with 9 to 5 hours and full benefits for a few stations in his area.

With many calls with me, He opened up his self-love, caring for the important details and steps to get his dream. His girlfriend is still busy with school and work yet she is texting and talking with him. He is patiently going with the flow, knowing it is just a matter of time until she will be back In his life again. Self-love builds your dreams into reality.

So are you ready to give yourself self-love and live your dreams? Need some assistance, contact me for a session today.

Lessons of the Hidden and the Truth

Lessons of the Hidden and the Truth



Have you ever stop and really thought all you have lived through: The event of the local to the world wide happens? I noticed a FB post and laughed and then felt old, yet still knowing so more to come for me. I know I have a divine plan and I am far from getting it all done. I do pray for it all to be done soon. I hear the universe laughing, whispering you know your path. Breathe, relax and get out of your way now, please. Amazed by the simplicity and yet how complicate the game of life has come to be… out of our own making. Really folks? A moment in the silence opens your mind to your truth, yet we still turn away at times.

You just want to hide. Hide behind that false mask with a smile, hoping it will be enough to calm that denial beast you love. Say yes and do as one is told. Keep the peace as you are shaking inside with bruises down to break the soul. The film replays and just repeats in your mind as you attempt to learn the triggers so it will stop. You live in the silence of fear of living your truth as you stopped trusting. You know it. It is hard to beat that challenge with it seems to keep beating you or is it? You just want to stop it all until… You get the hint!

At times, we get in our own way… for our dreams to manifest. Surrender to the flow and know with trust… you will be all you will be… and that is the best, shining bright and changing the world…one moment at a time. Embrace all you be…and what you have done. Give yourself credit and a hug. You are doing great. Breathe in deep and say YES!  have a beautiful day. ~jh

Self-trust is self-love, self-acceptance and self-beingness. Letting of what others tell you and connecting with the inner truth. Letting go of the mind game we play with ourselves and the materialize moments. This is happiness is available every moment in every cell of your “human” form. Don’t buy that you are stuck… That is the mind game in action. Instead face your fears and release them to the illusions where they came from.

In fearlessness, magic happens. Seeing through different eyes create the opportunity of new perspective on what you are creating in your life now. Colors will be brighter as taste be richer in flavor. The air will seem fresher and life continues to improve So take a moment, look in the mirror and breathe. Speak your truth to that person looking at you… those darkest fears and misjudgments.

Breathe, release and smile. Tell yourself I love you and mean it. See how many ways the life is sweeter and how the game becomes more fun as you detach from the outcome… now that you open yourself up to real possibilities with trust.

Live * Follow Your Heart * Be Kind * Trust Your Gut * Be Aware

A wise friend once told me a bit of wisdom.
“Be wise and know that you will get through everything…
One way or another. Enjoy the ride.” ~jh